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Sep 21Liked by Lani V. Cox

Nice to meet you, Lani. I'm first-gen Asian American and Gen-X too.

I've been feeling like an outsider since I was a teenager. It feels good to hear that we are all outsiders one way or another.

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Sep 22·edited Sep 22Author

I’m glad to hear that, Lily. Thanks! We also have first names that start with the best letter of the alphabet. 😉

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Jul 27·edited Jul 27Liked by Lani V. Cox

Gen X!! I knew we were twins 😂

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Whoohoooo! 🙌

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"I believe we’re all outsiders, and that fitting in is overrated."

I agree 😊

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YAYYY. Just got to convince all those other people who are still trying to fit in and feeling sad about "not belonging". 😉

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😮‍💨

We got some work to ahead of us lol

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Nice to meet you too, Lani. I believe you're right. We are all outsiders looking to belong somewhere with someone.

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Thanks, Veronika. It's a topic that I think could bring more of us together.

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I fully agree, Lani. I have explored the topic of being an 'outsider' a little in an earlier article called the 'Doublebind of Identity' https://veronikabondsymbiopaedia.substack.com/p/the-double-bind-of-identity. I would be curious to know what you make of it (of course!)

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Hey thanks, I'm heading over...

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